body language

I am really excited after reading a book which taught me not only how to read others’ body language, but also how to communicate better using nonverbal techniques. I also learned useful skills when interpreting body language in different cultures. Actually, what people send by body language is just as important as what they speak verbally.
What impressed me are the various hints of emotions on humans’ bodies. From head to toe, even slight movements in any part of body can suggest one’s feelings or opinions. Even more interesting are the tips distinguishing genuine facial expressions with fake ones, such as judging a genuine smile by whether it reaches the eyes. Being able to read and interpret these body signs, we will have a better initiative in our business interactions.
In addition, body language is also essential when we present ourselves. Just as we are reading others’ body languages, others are judging us in the same way. Thus, the ability to naturally send out appropriate messages by nonverbal language is vital to success in business world. To achieve this goal, we must thoroughly explore each action of our bodies, for example, giving a firm handshake to indicate our confidence, or leaning forward and looking at others’ eyes to show interest. Such body signs are very helpful in establishing positive images.
Finally, the discussion of body language in different cultures is extremely important. With economic globalization, effective communications between regions and cultures have become increasingly more significant. In various cultures, some bodily actions can have different or even opposite interpretations, which can result in misunderstandings and conflicts. And the frequency of touching and space between each other are both quite different from country to country. In these situations, we must be aware of the diverse translations of body language.
In conclusion, what I find most significant in Goman’s book are the mechanics of both reading and using body signs as well as the tactics of understanding body language under different cultural backgrounds.